tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-62597856412958667792024-02-21T00:34:41.242-07:00Rainbows of PromisesLight in the darknessColleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.comBlogger61125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-89963654791551015902011-02-17T12:46:00.012-07:002011-02-17T15:28:33.896-07:00Butterflies<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNLuAjsVnVm7x-c2ylVohE0QodGjM70AblVScHJoufccSwDgip7i4vfJqEoDfBy7UpgTsQMPddt9xBDHc1evUXkVN4DqO7HYMSdn00rcycfVIy_9FZOugN6SSug09fGvGSn2B8wvBFZbs/s1600/images1.jpg"><img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 160px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiNLuAjsVnVm7x-c2ylVohE0QodGjM70AblVScHJoufccSwDgip7i4vfJqEoDfBy7UpgTsQMPddt9xBDHc1evUXkVN4DqO7HYMSdn00rcycfVIy_9FZOugN6SSug09fGvGSn2B8wvBFZbs/s200/images1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574769104432633554" border="0" /></a>In the last few years, I've increasingly noticed butterflies in my life. Mostly in little things like home decorating designs, hair clips (I have 6 sparkly tiny ones), and on pretty fabrics. Generally, I like butterfly designs. I've noticed them more in nature too. And I tend to think of them whenever I think of beautiful waterfall landscapes (which never cease to take my breath away).<br /><br />In the last six weeks, I've been thinking about butterflies a lot. They pop into my mind at the (seemingly) most random times. Driving to work, I realized that perhaps it wasn't so random and I should look to see if there was a pattern or possible reason behind the "distraction." So I prayed and started spending a few minutes seriously thinking about them whenever they came to mind. I really don't know too much about them, just what an average 4th grader might know. (I'm a girly-girl, usually bugs and insects make me scream "eww!!" and run away; I don't typically want to spend time analyzing them.)<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGWUkcnNuWQCsURXTpAI3ewsVY5UfXJhi4AfJpjJ-gyAZVAsM9IBnFoXslUowJbTMPGWHnw_-Nq-V36PLEvFjke2HV6uhcGxEWAftRA6IIeHzbPFJHF1LX5yoYQXN8x5Z032QHywca-uM/s1600/Monarch_Butterfly_Danaus_plexippus_Purple_Coneflower_3008.jpg"><br /></a>As I thought about them, I was struck by a few things. I was fascinated with the different stages of development and how their transformation occurs. I think they are some of the most beautiful creatures (also a bit weird when I really think about it - they're insects!!) that God created. They are simultaneously strong and fragile in appearance. They are a thriving contradiction.<br /><br />Over the last year of my life, I think I've often felt like a butterfly. I've battled some big issues about myself (perfectionism, insecurity, worthlessness, and trust). I've struggled with (a deeper than I would care to admit to almost anyone) depression for several months. These things have played out through my perceptions of God, perceptions of myself, and relationships with others. This year, I've become practically a hermit, even from my closest friends.<br /><br />In terms of the life of a butterfly, I think I was in the slug phase in Denver. I was fine with who I was and where I was, (mostly) content with things. I knew I was an ugly slug but accepted my fate and was alright with that (for the most part). I wanted to be a better slug but always saw myself as a slug.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGWUkcnNuWQCsURXTpAI3ewsVY5UfXJhi4AfJpjJ-gyAZVAsM9IBnFoXslUowJbTMPGWHnw_-Nq-V36PLEvFjke2HV6uhcGxEWAftRA6IIeHzbPFJHF1LX5yoYQXN8x5Z032QHywca-uM/s1600/Monarch_Butterfly_Danaus_plexippus_Purple_Coneflower_3008.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 133px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGWUkcnNuWQCsURXTpAI3ewsVY5UfXJhi4AfJpjJ-gyAZVAsM9IBnFoXslUowJbTMPGWHnw_-Nq-V36PLEvFjke2HV6uhcGxEWAftRA6IIeHzbPFJHF1LX5yoYQXN8x5Z032QHywca-uM/s200/Monarch_Butterfly_Danaus_plexippus_Purple_Coneflower_3008.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574772464875094562" border="0" /></a>But God has a different vision of who I am. He says I'm a new creation, not just an improved slug. We have been fighting for quite a while over which perception of me is true and accurate. He had to practically force me into a solitary cocoon where only He can speak the truths that I need to hear. Once in said cocoon, I questioned everything I thought I knew. And I experienced the deep betrayal of several close friends in this process. In turn, I have hurt those I care for deeply.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGWUkcnNuWQCsURXTpAI3ewsVY5UfXJhi4AfJpjJ-gyAZVAsM9IBnFoXslUowJbTMPGWHnw_-Nq-V36PLEvFjke2HV6uhcGxEWAftRA6IIeHzbPFJHF1LX5yoYQXN8x5Z032QHywca-uM/s1600/Monarch_Butterfly_Danaus_plexippus_Purple_Coneflower_3008.jpg"><br /></a>I know that pain is part of being in relationship with others in our fallen world, even with my brothers and sisters in Christ. But it doesn't make the pain hurt any less when it happens. And trying to balance the reality with the truth and practice of grace and forgiveness are always hard lessons to embrace and carry out.<br /><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div>What I am convinced of is that God sees me as a beautiful creation, all His own. I am a new creation, not just an improved upon model of what I was. That I am filled with both His strength and fragility. And that beauty and love are found in what appear to be contradictions.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">I know things aren't really as simplistic as I've described them. But they are truths spoken to my heart in a way I was able to receive them and felt led to share.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;">And the damaged relationships? Right now, I feel more fragile than strong; I think I'm too fragile about this new identity to allow many people into my heart at the moment. Therefore, remaining in the cocoon a bit longer is really appealing. And yet, I really want to spread my wings and live freely like everyone else, embracing the life God has called me to live. I'm trusting the relationships to God and He will appropriately bring reconciliation and (possibly) restoration to them in His timing.<br /></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEif4AOwmlx0TmOtIec0FnWY9ygvLKdm8Jl1ISWUn0zuhjy9lZhERyiWJYDEpY-fl9IyoJmNshm-_4W4sITp_pB91Cf4cicZpkYwmDQ3jw5HFlnXM5yK9bJaIVJnjHjv2d3eG0GwDTDIr3o/s1600/3794363324_c270b5bb4b_o.jpg"><img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 160px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEif4AOwmlx0TmOtIec0FnWY9ygvLKdm8Jl1ISWUn0zuhjy9lZhERyiWJYDEpY-fl9IyoJmNshm-_4W4sITp_pB91Cf4cicZpkYwmDQ3jw5HFlnXM5yK9bJaIVJnjHjv2d3eG0GwDTDIr3o/s200/3794363324_c270b5bb4b_o.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574770763655879490" border="0" /></a></div> </div>And next time I'm in Denver, I think I may need to visit the Butterfly Pavilion!<div style="text-align: center;"> </div>Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-520665760175711222010-02-13T10:47:00.007-07:002010-02-13T11:34:08.845-07:00His Princess BrideThose who know me well know that I have two shopping weaknesses: craft stores and bookstores. :-) <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">LifeWay</span> Christian store has become one of my new favorite bookstores. It is possible (though rare) that I walk in without purchasing anything. I've learned to go only when I'm looking for a specific item.<br /><br />I was in there a few weeks ago looking for a new women's Bible study (specific goal) and of course found a few other things while I was there. One of the books I found is <em>His Princess Bride: Love Letters from Your Prince</em> by Sheri Rose Shepherd. I went ahead and purchased it because it speaks directly to some of the things God has been working on in me (and it was on sale). It's organized by topic and I've been reading a few of them a day since I bought it. The layout is a brief letter from Christ and then a brief response from His Bride. I opened it today, praying that God would guide me to what I needed to hear from Him today. It opened to the first entry, "I Am Your Eternal Husband." Here is His letter:<br /><br /><br /><blockquote><p>My Eternal Bride,<br /><br />I want to reveal a sacred secret to you, My beloved. Although I am your God, I am also your eternal Husband. I will come soon to <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">carry</span> you over the threshold into eternity. My desire is to lift the veil from your eyes that you might see who you really are, My Princess, My Bride. I am the Lover of your soul. I long to get close enough to give you a glimpse of My eternal love for you. If you will seek Me with all your heart, I will reveal Myself to you in extraordinary ways. If you will come before Me and ask, I will give you a new hope in your heart that will change your view of Me, of yourself, and of the world around you forever.<br /><br />Love,<br />Your Creator and Husband<br /><br />The Lord All-Powerful,<br />the Holy God of <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">Israel</span>,<br />rules all the earth.<br />He is your Creator and husband,<br />and He will rescue you.<br />Isaiah 54:5 <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">CEV</span></p></blockquote><br />Understanding who I really am in Christ and how He really sees me is an area God has been working on in me. Last night, I had a brief conversation with a friend about my identity in Christ and how He's changing specific thought patterns and actions. I've had a hard time making some of the transitions and have stumbled quite a bit this past week.<br /><br />For many years, I've passed myself off as "the dumb <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">blonde</span>" in groups of friends, particularly when I'm making new friends. It was easier for me to reject and make fun of myself before someone else did so. However, a big problem would arise when the friend would jokingly throw my very words back at me and I took them seriously, not as the joke I <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">originally</span> said. It has become a very dangerous and hard cycle to break, but God is breaking it.<br /><br />Lord, "may I find myself as I begin to seek You with all that is within me."<br /><br /><span style="font-size:78%;">Shepherd, Sheri Rose. <em>His Princess Bride: Love Letters from Your Prince</em>. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">Revell</span>: Grand Rapids, Michigan, 2008. p. 10-12.</span>Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-35235195211182735862009-12-28T18:42:00.005-07:002009-12-28T19:24:08.758-07:00Cheap EntertainmentI have two cats, both of whom have strange personality quirks. However, they share an odd obsession with boxes. They sit on them, climb inside them, dig in them, fight over them, and will flip them over to meet their needs.<br /><br />Their obsession comes in handy when I need to put them in a carrier for any reason. I bring it out and they immediately start fighting over who is going to sit in it and they're generally happy to be in the carrier because they think of it as another box. Having cats that love being in their carriers is such a huge blessing when one moves as often as I have. :-)<br /><br />Last night, Posie (a 12.5 pound Tabby-Siamese mix) spent twenty minutes trying to fit in a box far too small for her. She could sort of sit in the box but became frustrated when she tried to lay down and didn't fit. This resulted in her getting up and walking around the box multiple times, digging at it, and trying again (hoping it had somehow expanded since the last attempt). Finally, she tilted it on the lid and laid down on that while still digging at the bottom (now on it's side). See below for pictures of the early part of her attempts.<br /><br />Today, I had to move some things around to get to some craft boxes. I finally found what I was looking for in one of the boxes and haphazardly put the lid back on it and focused on the project at hand. Not five minutes later, I looked over and Posie had removed the box lid and was sitting on top of the contents, in the box.<br /><br />After the last twenty-four hours, do you think she's on the hunt for a new box to claim? I would feel badly for her, except that she has her very own box that she completely fits in and is allowed to tear apart. In fact, she routinely jumps in her box, known as "Posie's box," whenever I come in the door. Oh well, at least her toys are cheap: boxes! :-)<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjq-c4ztKdSzRDWuq2E9_TCYnyo4ch5IKYDwfn32bj9ZmSmak7VGEyXknvAJYg1a3uvp5n_f4DvsmBtF-XPn11ug8qvVGffRZWCATLgnPgxXvn_Lz0ghjMfRSBQwk3STBlQm0sLKgskQmI/s1600-h/Posie+in+Small+Box+2.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 162px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjq-c4ztKdSzRDWuq2E9_TCYnyo4ch5IKYDwfn32bj9ZmSmak7VGEyXknvAJYg1a3uvp5n_f4DvsmBtF-XPn11ug8qvVGffRZWCATLgnPgxXvn_Lz0ghjMfRSBQwk3STBlQm0sLKgskQmI/s200/Posie+in+Small+Box+2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420474549755887650" border="0" /></a><br />As you can see, she barely fits in the box.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFz7zcz-ugdOA3gU0aQ2sni47RSbVkiPELPB0soeboFowH_gE82hgpfcMd-oGJBw5huEUjJiBufBF7uqmTXqamc1EvEgI7lzx02TiqdQwLtlazJU7hG-jExjRSen7x5lfL2KB5e5gS0ok/s1600-h/Posie+in+Small+Box+1.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 194px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFz7zcz-ugdOA3gU0aQ2sni47RSbVkiPELPB0soeboFowH_gE82hgpfcMd-oGJBw5huEUjJiBufBF7uqmTXqamc1EvEgI7lzx02TiqdQwLtlazJU7hG-jExjRSen7x5lfL2KB5e5gS0ok/s200/Posie+in+Small+Box+1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420474332233723922" border="0" /></a><br />But she's so proud of herself for fitting. :-)Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-82779143577539092312009-12-25T11:29:00.002-07:002009-12-25T12:00:49.978-07:00Merry Christmas<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHZayFBisTSWhVYTmuqg6UXvvwDr8f5vvbzIjTre0wR1Y3jWG_HLo4LsdZQ8bOgVCs_jZZFgCNiNy0XbpiA7gDe0VMG6kPpye_ai097t8vt7IVXcSB7agatsDmN6jwtzOaa_XoymrVEZo/s1600-h/FourRosesAlbum0007.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhHZayFBisTSWhVYTmuqg6UXvvwDr8f5vvbzIjTre0wR1Y3jWG_HLo4LsdZQ8bOgVCs_jZZFgCNiNy0XbpiA7gDe0VMG6kPpye_ai097t8vt7IVXcSB7agatsDmN6jwtzOaa_XoymrVEZo/s200/FourRosesAlbum0007.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5419250631573523554" border="0" /></a>I love when I'm overwhelmed by funny and sentimental memories from childhood. Not that I want to live in the past, but sometimes it's just fun to remember the silliness and excitement of being a child on Christmas morning. Family traditions are so interesting to me. Each family develops their own and makes them unique, yet there's usually something common to so many of the traditions we share.<br /><br />One of my favorite childhood family traditions on Christmas morning was how my parents made my brother and me wait to see our tree with all the gifts. We had an enclosed staircase with a landing part-way up. My parents would hang a dark sheet from the ceiling and make sure that we couldn't easily see around it. Even if you did see around the sheet, all you could see was the rest of the staircase. My brother and I would wait upstairs for what often seemed like hours (and as we got older, it was usually hours) before being permitted downstairs to start celebrating Christmas as a family. The anticipation and excitement would build to the point that we could barely tolerate it.<br /><br />I hope the anticipation of Christmas has built to the point that you can barely tolerate it today! Merry Christmas!!Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-7258217708947420362009-12-21T08:47:00.015-07:002010-03-18T11:26:06.220-06:00One Year<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPXiPhR4CtucDxokZHMh_VpCOU9c-1WwSMz7GZgYShCHPlBxZgIkPh-kVnw-Q4AzNTAhaVldxJLsJITa8txGcaQmP5fdE28v7QO5CmZU__RwuPGX9b557Jq5lhNpRnpP2mjWf9pSDZnYE/s1600-h/IMG_0125.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; WIDTH: 180px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 130px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417734417852865954" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPXiPhR4CtucDxokZHMh_VpCOU9c-1WwSMz7GZgYShCHPlBxZgIkPh-kVnw-Q4AzNTAhaVldxJLsJITa8txGcaQmP5fdE28v7QO5CmZU__RwuPGX9b557Jq5lhNpRnpP2mjWf9pSDZnYE/s200/IMG_0125.JPG" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBPOaQwFJ6jeCRzmZE0x9XcU6f1caWPwaMBsLNYCVZyiJh1chpjA9JjMbPaGbqLkdn_xjkpoB9GgTNgDD2R_-yHvtLpyZoujQnvCeTdupUzdAkK_M3S5Sjh_jvt5nn7HC9u_mIwX8ycIM/s1600-h/336.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; WIDTH: 180px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 130px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417733849105121506" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgBPOaQwFJ6jeCRzmZE0x9XcU6f1caWPwaMBsLNYCVZyiJh1chpjA9JjMbPaGbqLkdn_xjkpoB9GgTNgDD2R_-yHvtLpyZoujQnvCeTdupUzdAkK_M3S5Sjh_jvt5nn7HC9u_mIwX8ycIM/s200/336.JPG" /></a>One year ago today, my grandmother passed away. It wasn't a peaceful passing but I'm confident she's at peace, pain free, and joyfully spending an eternity with Jesus. I didn't really get to know my grandmother until I moved to Indiana in 2005 and spent many weekends with her the year I lived there.<br /><br />I'm so thankful that God allowed us to really know each other and used her in my life in so many ways. Grieving over the loss of her in my daily life has been different than the process I experienced with my dad and my grandfathers. I find it interesting how grief is so unique to the individual relationship, that no one process is identical to another. And yet sometimes, I wish there was a formula for it.<br /><br />I miss her wise counsel, her laugh, her gruff tone when she'd had enough football viewing for one day (and insisted I change the channel to something else), her encouragement, calling her with recipe questions, and the way she could read through my facade. But I think most of all, I miss how she loved each one of her family members and friends. She had a way of getting to know someone so well and understanding what they needed and how they needed to be loved in that moment. I hope that someday I'm able to love others that way as well.<br /><br />I'm thankful for the time I had with her and the way God has used her to shape my life. It's amazing how even when someone is gone from our daily lives, God can continue to use them to shape us into who He created each of us to be. I can still hear her reprimanding tone as she yelled at my grandfather when she'd catch him pesting someone or plotting some prank or scheme, "George!" :-) Everyone within earshot would just laugh, knowing he'd been caught and managed to achieve his goal of pesting someone (her) without having to actually prank anyone.<br /><br />Today, I miss her and I'm flooded by hard memories of a year ago. Usually the better memories occupy my mind, but it's understandable that some difficult ones are there today too.<br /><br />Below: Grandma with my cousin. Grandpa with his "Four Red Roses" (all the granddaughters). He was probably about to tickle all of us. :-)<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnjJH0f1dIiHxDbJyyl6ZpkL-ofAxIa7M7OGXEuFFd8QqogLOf4-4DY37phMPerIudEadqagDCZu5LZ5Doeg97Nazu6EU22G5ThXDMijO9qbmIyJtgiuzwqunOodjwq8jK4PpUpoxMl50/s1600-h/FourRosesAlbum0004.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; WIDTH: 180px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 114px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417734570200392706" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnjJH0f1dIiHxDbJyyl6ZpkL-ofAxIa7M7OGXEuFFd8QqogLOf4-4DY37phMPerIudEadqagDCZu5LZ5Doeg97Nazu6EU22G5ThXDMijO9qbmIyJtgiuzwqunOodjwq8jK4PpUpoxMl50/s200/FourRosesAlbum0004.jpg" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHXPvO_1gbcGXQh0Scm168qF6-wrrqB05jjT7oy1W31uvxhagvLnlvQHJJ-fj_iaoaarN2eb9ozOZyY4SjeBhxjT24gMVi8P3Ctwgyb7H-ObJa0_5eJZItL_cQZx19ndAjWvasRZ-TYcs/s1600-h/FourRosesAlbum0005.jpg"><img style="WIDTH: 180px; HEIGHT: 114px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417734699461273554" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHXPvO_1gbcGXQh0Scm168qF6-wrrqB05jjT7oy1W31uvxhagvLnlvQHJJ-fj_iaoaarN2eb9ozOZyY4SjeBhxjT24gMVi8P3Ctwgyb7H-ObJa0_5eJZItL_cQZx19ndAjWvasRZ-TYcs/s200/FourRosesAlbum0005.jpg" /></a><span style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline"><br /></span>Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-59148289818645880262009-12-18T11:40:00.004-07:002009-12-18T12:21:08.283-07:00ProvisionI finished this (crazy) semester on Tuesday. That day involved working nearly twelve hours and driving more than two hours in traffic to and from my internship. I still have some writing to do for the project, but for the most part it is done. As is typical for me, I've been obsessively checking for my grades since Wednesday. :-)<br /><br />As wonderful as it feels to not have homework to do today or tomorrow, it also hasn't sunk in yet that I have at least a month of no classes. I'm praying that I pass my classes and am able to graduate this semester, but it could be another two weeks before I know if I passed and apparently it can take up to a month for the graduation application to go through. It's so easy for me to obsess and want to know right now. One friend asked what I was doing to curb how often I check on my grades and I replied that I've been able to start only checking every two hours. ;-) She suggested I find other things to occupy my time and distract me, which is usually what happens. It just takes me a few days to get there and settle into the wait.<br /><br />Overall though, this has been a really challenging week for me. God is definitely moving in my life and working on some things that He couldn't while I was in the middle of classes. Unfortunately, I've been struggling to be in the Christmas spirit so far. I've been so busy with finishing school and trying to graduate that I haven't had the energy to focus on anything outside of that. I've been trying to bake goodies this week and I need to move furniture and decorate.<br /><br />I know people would say that Christmas isn't about cookies and Christmas trees; and, they're absolutely right. But, it creates and continues the feeling of mystery, wonder, and joy that Christmas embodies for me. It's the ambiance, it helps me focus on Christ and the gift God gave us in His Son.<br /><br />And I know that I'm especially struggling with that this year as it is the first celebrated Christmas since my grandmother's passing last year. I miss her terribly and I know that if I don't fully celebrate Christmas this year, a bad pattern could be established where this time of the year is only associated with her instead of properly focused on Christ. There's a balance that needs to be found and I'm still working on it.<br /><br />Yet, I know God will provide what I need to be able to focus on Him and His Son this season. Perhaps for me, the season of Christmas may only be a few days this year. But that's longer than the season I experienced last year. I hope that God's provision (which is really what Christmas is all about) never fails to amaze me. I hope that I always see His provision, acknowledging it when I see and experience it, thanking Him for how deeply He loves me and each one of us.<br /><br />After all of that and looking back on this week, I think I need a good laugh. I present, Reindeer Posie and Santa Izzy...<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQik-XnxkG8u-qZeVjEBopjvx_0ZoblQwNrpOVuMg_oU6-58vWlBUpq2OyUw849kbQRaxgIDUfdH0pmCI8Ssuz0MmL5OxJu7sMxM6gxPLV39-Q_KPMp5J5pNH63OOirk70_-HYeYrvNcw/s1600-h/IMG_0458.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQik-XnxkG8u-qZeVjEBopjvx_0ZoblQwNrpOVuMg_oU6-58vWlBUpq2OyUw849kbQRaxgIDUfdH0pmCI8Ssuz0MmL5OxJu7sMxM6gxPLV39-Q_KPMp5J5pNH63OOirk70_-HYeYrvNcw/s320/IMG_0458.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5416655665060908482" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLubUg3VNK78ec5oH2RBJRJr00RvAE6OKyQClfrMr7M2BnNI3-iHOcSWgfbGhV7nRVjWrexrAVpjzYDarWWrp01l3LHW5xOhrKhaO4tFGJ26qyVp-ByJ_IlQKwEIrWEYDJIa_j4Fw729A/s1600-h/IMG_0460.JPG"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLubUg3VNK78ec5oH2RBJRJr00RvAE6OKyQClfrMr7M2BnNI3-iHOcSWgfbGhV7nRVjWrexrAVpjzYDarWWrp01l3LHW5xOhrKhaO4tFGJ26qyVp-ByJ_IlQKwEIrWEYDJIa_j4Fw729A/s320/IMG_0460.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5416656203778331970" border="0" /></a>Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-56634070782787465012009-09-30T00:25:00.002-06:002009-09-30T00:30:31.259-06:00What Faith Can DoKutless - What Faith Can Do<br /><br /><object width="560" height="340"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/7elxC8LXfzE&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/v/7elxC8LXfzE&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="560" height="340"></embed></object><br /><br />I heard this song the other day and it is so applicable to recent events in my life. I hope it encourages you the way it has me.Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-73414791624824680722009-08-27T09:02:00.005-06:002009-08-27T10:35:51.018-06:00Trusting AgainThese songs have been on my heart and are pretty descriptive of how I've been feeling lately. Recently, a friend hurt me deeply. They cut me to the core and I've questioned everything I thought I knew about them and our friendship. Accepting that God wants to restore that friendship hasn't been easy for me. Sometimes I still struggle with putting that into practice, specifically when it comes to trusting that friend again. However, I'm choosing to trust God and allowing Him to guide this friendship. By trusting in Him, He's made it possible for me to trust my friend again. Throughout this process, what I needed to hear over and over again was that God's character is consistent and nothing rattles Him; He is in control. I know He's trustworthy and I need to live that out.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Phil Stacey - <span style="font-style: italic;">You're Not Shaken</span></span><br />From the album <span style="font-style: italic;">Into The Light</span><br /><br />I am sinking in a river that is raging<br />I am drowning, will I ever rise to breathe again?<br />I want to know why, I just want to understand<br />Will I ever know why?<br />How could this be from Your hand?<br /><br />When every little thing that I have dreamed would be<br />Just slips away like water through my hand<br />And when it seems the walls of my belief are crashing down<br />Like they're all made of sand<br />I won't let go of You now, because I know You're not shaken<br /><br />I am trembling in the darkness of my own fear<br />All the questions with no answers still grip me while I'm here<br />And I may never know why, I may not understand<br />But I will lift up my eyes and trust this is Your plan<br /><br />When every little thing that I have dreamed would be<br />Just slips away like water through my hand<br />And when it seems the walls of my belief are crashing down<br />Like they're all made of sand<br />I won't let go of You now, because I know You're not shaken<br /><br />When I am in the valley of the shadow of death<br />You're not shaken, You're not shaken<br />You're right here beside me and You have never left<br />You're not shaken, You're not shaken<br /><br />When every little thing that I have dreamed would be<br />Just slips away like water through my hand<br />And when it seems the walls of my belief are crashing down<br />Like they're all made of sand<br />I won't let go of You now, because I know You're not shaken<br /><br />You're not shaken<br />You're not shaken<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Mark Schultz - <span style="font-style: italic;">He Is</span><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></span></span></span>From the album<span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"> </span></span></span></span><span style="font-style: italic;">Come Alive<span style="font-style: italic;"><br /><br /></span></span>Father, let the world just fade away<br />Let me feel Your presence in this place<br />Lord, I've never been so weary<br />How I need to know You're near me<br />Father, let the world just fade away<br />'Til I'm on my knees<br />'Til my heart can sing<br /><br />He is<br />He was<br />He always will be<br />Even when it feels like there is no one holding me<br />Be still, my soul<br />He is<br /><br />Father, let Your Holy Spirit sing<br />Let it calm this storm inside of me<br />As I stand amazed<br />Lift my hands and say<br /><br />He is<br />He was<br />He always will be<br />He lives<br />He loves<br />He's always with me<br />Even when it feels like there is no one holding me<br />Be still, my soul<br /><br />Through every fear<br />And every doubt<br />In every tear I shed<br />Down every road<br />I'm not alone<br />No matter where I am<br /><br />He is<br />He was<br />He always will be<br />He lives<br />He loves<br />He's always with me<br />Even when it feels like there is no one holding me<br />Be still, my soul<br />Be still and know<br />Be still, my soul<br />He isColleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-28411396430080095302009-08-08T07:11:00.004-06:002009-08-08T07:34:29.826-06:00You know your hair is too long when......you close the car door and it gets stuck.<br /><br />....you roll up the car window and it gets stuck.<br /><br />....you sit down and try to turn your head and can't because it is stuck.<br /><br />...it gets stuck under your armpit or someone else's when you give them a hug.<br /><br />...you need to tie it back in order to keep it out of your food when you eat.<br /><br />...it takes 20 minutes or more to dry your hair.<br /><br />...after you shower, you wrap your hair in a towel and it sticks out the end.<br /><br />...you play with it by reaching around your back.<br /><br />...it reaches under your chin and you can tie it.<br /><br />...you can tie it in a knot and it stays for a few seconds.<br /><br />...you can re-enact Catherine Zeta-Jones' sword fight in <span style="font-style: italic;">The Mask of Zorro</span>.<br /><br />...you bend over and it touches the ground.<br /><br />...it's longer than your shirt sleeve.<br /><br />My hair has been driving me crazy lately. Not all of these are true for my hair, but enough are that it was funny. :-)<br /><br />Thanks for some of the ideas, D!!Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-67779385739727741462009-08-03T09:24:00.005-06:002009-08-03T12:51:03.394-06:00AdjustingI've been back from Cologne (Koeln) for a week and am finally thinking the jet lag may be behind me. My stomach has been the toughest thing to overcome. For some reason it has been very sensitive and I wasn't able to eat much last week. I had no problems with the food in Germany, so I find it a bit odd that I started having issues when I returned home. But I was able to eat two full meals yesterday, which is a huge improvement from last week! Today's goal is three meals!<br /><br />I'm planning on writing more about my adventures there, but haven't had a chance to since I'm still finishing up my last summer class this week. Fall semester starts in a month and I need to finalize my schedule. There's so much to do!Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-18344499194328016572009-07-03T08:40:00.005-06:002009-07-03T18:24:12.907-06:00Recent RevelationsThe last several months have been difficult and yet I've been enormously blessed through the pain. I've seen two of my close friendships end in the span of six months. Both were very painful experiences and they left me hurt, battered, and broken. One in particular has been very challenging for me to endure. Accusations have flown about my character and I felt as though that person was permitted to emotionally abuse me while mutual friends just sat there and observed, doing little or nothing to stop the abuse. I know the goal of the mutual friends was not to contribute to that pain, yet they did unintentionally. I've also learned that there were times when they did defend me from the abuse, I just wasn't made aware of those situations until later. They stepped in between us at great risk to themselves and I'm grateful for their love and support. The entire situation has been painful and unfortunate, on all sides. The ending of that friendship deeply shook my world and has altered most of my other close friendships.<br /><br />Through God, those altered friendships have grown deeper and richer; which was not my former friend's goal. And those friends have become a huge blessing in my life. I continue to be amazed at how God takes an incredibly painful situation and turns it into something of beauty. Through the loss of those two friends, I've drawn closer to Him and to others in my life. He has continued to take down walls that I built years ago. He has used those deeper friendships to help tear down some of those walls and I'm learning to lean on others in times of pain and joy. He has made something new and marvelous in this process.<br /><br />In the midst of all of this, He started asking me how much I trust Him. Trust seems to be the area God works on in my life the most. It constantly comes up in various ways.<br /><br />This time last year, while I wanted to eventually be married and have a family, I believed I was too damaged and broken for those blessings. A complete lie and one I believed for years about myself. Thankfully, God has changed that this year.<br /><br />Also, around this time last year, I ultimately wanted to work as a university archivist. At many (or most) universities, that would require me to go through the process of gaining tenure. This often requires 60 hour work weeks for at least 5 years, often longer if you start out in a lower ranking job where you have to climb the ranks. At the time, this didn't really bother me; I was living with the lie that I would have little to no life outside of work, so I might as well put all of me into work. Again, that is no longer true.<br /><br />While I would still love to be a university archivist, I'm no longer willing to spend the amount of time it would take to achieve tenure. Also, I believe God will bless me with a husband and family someday. He's reshaping the vision for my life to match His and while I'm excited for that, it also leaves me a little uncertain about how this all fits together.<br /><br />As I was accepting those altered plans, God started asking me if I would really follow Him, to possibly live in a foreign country and serve Him. To be honest, I didn't really see that question coming. For weeks, I struggled to discern if it was really God's voice in my life. Once I determined it was, I had all kinds of questions and excuses to pose before Him. However, in the end, I agreed that I would follow wherever He leads me, even to a foreign country. I have no idea what that would look like. Would I be there as an archivist, as a missionary, or in some other capacity? Is He asking me to go soon or in several years? What does that mean for library school? The only answer I have is that I need to finish up library school. I have no answers to the rest of these (and other) questions.<br /><br />I've never been on a mission trip in my life, let alone one to a foreign country. In fact, the only foreign country I've been to is Canada - once when I was 6 and again when I was 18, on a band trip. I'm not experienced at sharing my faith with others. I often feel completely incompetant in just about everything. I don't have many Bible verses memorized. The list goes on and on of how I know I'm not prepared or qualified for such a calling.<br /><br />I've always wanted to travel around in Europe and at one point wanted to study abroad for a year. However, I've never had the serious desire to live in a foreign country long-term. This is a huge shift for me because that seems to be where He's gently leading my heart right now. And while I trust Him, there are moments of absolute confusion about all of this and days that I spend a large amount of time asking Him to tell me more about His vision. So far, He's been silent beyond just asking me if I'd go (and that I need to finish my degree).<br /><br />One friend's cautionary advice is that God may not be calling me overseas at all. He could just be testing me to see how much I really do trust Him with His vision for my life. Or He may be working on another area of my life and I'm not seeing it yet. And while I've had the same thoughts over the last several months (on several occassions, I've actually hoped for this to be the case); the idea of living overseas continues to come up. And I have increasing peace with the idea even though I have absolutely no answers to serious (or frivolous) questions on the topic. Which, I will admit, drives me crazy!<br /><br />I believe the opportunity for me to go to Cologne later this month is part of this process. Granted, I'm going as an archivist with a small group of other archivists, not on a mission trip. Yet, I have no doubt this was completely orchestrated by God and He is at work here.<br /><br />I just finished reading <span style="font-style: italic;"></span><span style="font-style: italic;">Captivating</span>. In it<span style="font-style: italic;"></span>, John and Stasi Eldredge spend some time discussing how God invites us to join Him on His journeys and adventures. They use the Cinderella fairytale to illustrate the amazing things that can happen when we accept His invitation, one that may be completely unexpected. They do a much better job explaining this, but here it is in a nutshell: Her life was set on a specific course and she accepted it dutifully. Then one day, an invitation to a grand ball arrived and at great risk, she attended. Later, even when she was punished for her actions, she again accepted the invitation to try on the slipper. Her willingness to accept the invitation forever altered her life and the kingdom's, in a positive way.<br /><br />Right now, I feel like that's what He is doing in my life, gently inviting me on a journey I've not seriously thought of taking before. I have friends and family members who have felt God calling them to serve Him in foreign countries, in various capacities. And while I have enthusiastically supported them, I have never really felt God calling me to that. I have no idea how it will play out, what His vision is for this. I do know that I trust Him with my present and future, wherever He leads me.<br /><br />P.S. I felt led to blog this morning and share some of what's been on my heart of late, but this is not what I planned to write. I have kept these new revelations mostly to myself, only sharing them with my closest friends. I'm a little apprehensive to share them with those of you who don't talk with me daily. Apparently, God had a different plan for what He wanted me to share today.Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-77824531380547657142009-06-22T16:33:00.001-06:002009-06-22T16:35:17.325-06:00CologneI heard back from my graduate school and have been accepted as part of the team going to Cologne, Germany next month!!! I'm so excited!! I haven't been able to focus on doing actual coursework at all today. :-)Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-53242798590474545662009-06-22T09:21:00.003-06:002009-06-22T09:40:16.052-06:00Quick UpdateThe Cologne Archives approved SOIS (my graduate program) to help them in the next phase of document recovery! I submitted my application packet and am waiting to hear whether I'll be part of the team or not.<br /><br />On a totally unrelated note, I love the uniqueness of cats. I'm sitting with both of my cats curled up next me, wanting to be petted. They're also both purring! However, they like to be petted in very different ways and trying to pet both at once is a little challenging. I love that they have such unique personalities! Admittedly, they're both a little odd, but I think most cats are odd. :-)Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-6485069122957043502009-06-16T21:56:00.002-06:002009-06-16T22:31:46.310-06:00Cologne ArchivesI heard about the <a href="http://www.spiegel.de/international/germany/0,1518,612129,00.html">sudden collapse of the Cologne Archives</a> back in March and was shocked by the vast destruction, like so many others. I've always wanted to visit Germany or Austria and have taken many years of German language classes (though that was a while ago). However, those countries have been increasingly on my heart over the last six months.<br /><br />Much to my surprise, I opened an email on Friday that my graduate school is looking at sending five students to help with the recovery process at the Cologne Archives in July. Initially, I thought I had missed the deadline to indicate my interest. Then I saw that the date initially provided was incorrect. I responded that I wanted more information and the application packet was sent to us today. I also learned that the initial recovery process may have ended and only "professionals" are now wanted for the recovery process. The organizer is still trying to determine if graduate students qualify as "professionals."<br /><br />I have no idea if God really wants me to go and assist in this project, but it would be so amazing! I'm excited at just the thought of possibly going to Germany, even if it is to sift through dirty and damaged documents for a week. I'll keep you posted on what happens, if I'm chosen to be part of the team and if a team is even able to go.Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-73271250046570108012009-05-18T08:56:00.003-06:002009-05-18T12:57:57.856-06:00ThankfulSo, I realize that it has been almost a month since the last blog update. There has been a lot going on in my life. Some of which I feel comfortable sharing and some of which I don't, yet. :-)<br /><br />I finished the spring semester of school last week! I wasn't sure how well I would finish, I'm still waiting to hear about my grade in one class. But so far, I've passed them and am still on track to graduate in December. God is so good! I start my practicum and summer class in a week.<br /><br />I was actually failing one class throughout the semester and only became aware that fact in the last month of the course. A couple simple mistakes landed me in that situation and I never seemed able to catch up, until the very end when God provided everything required to finish and showed me grace in the situation.<br /><br />I spent much time in the last month crying about multiple relationships and seeking God through the challenges in my path. While I am still without some answers to big questions that continue to puzzle me, I have a new sense of peace and calm about the situations. I don't feel like I'm in the midst of a great storm anymore! Every so often, a big wave will seem to come at me and while I may momentarily lose my balance, the peace remains. <br /><br />I'm so thankful for the work He's doing in my life, for the areas He continues to reveal that need improvement. But mostly, I'm thankful for the peace that comes from learning how to truly trust Him. I've also learned how to have faith that He continues to work in my life, molding me into the person He designed me to be!Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-1623602244450561222009-04-19T08:41:00.003-06:002009-04-19T09:13:24.767-06:00History or Invasion of Privacy?I really should be doing homework. I'll say that now. I have two papers due today (neither of which I've written) and another due in a few days. But, I'm a procrastinator and this is bothering me. I'll (try to) be brief though.<br /><br />The title links to an article I saw on <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">MSNBC</span> this morning about whether President Lincoln's supposed brain matter (or blood) on a pillowcase in a museum should go through a DNA test to determine if he had a specific type of cancer that possibly would have killed him within a year of his assassination.<br /><br />I understand testing the remains of unidentified bone fragments to determine if they really belonged to the Romanov's. It is one thing to test human remains to determine <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">someones</span> identity or to determine how they died. As the article points out, the remains of two former Presidents have undergone testing in the last two decades. Thomas Jefferson and Zachery Taylor (I actually remember reading about Taylor's when I was a child). Jefferson's remains were examined about a decade ago. However, solving those historic mysteries is completely different to me than the reasons put forth by the researcher in Lincoln's case.<br /><br />Let the man rest in peace! He was our first assassinated President. We know how he died. We also know how he lived. The <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">researcher's</span> argument that he wants to know how Lincoln lived is misguided in my opinion. While knowing what genetic disorder permitted Lincoln's unique physical appearance would be fascinating, it is not worth disturbing his place of internment or destroying (albeit grotesque) historic materials. Robert Lincoln (the last surviving son) made it perfectly clear that he wanted the public to back off and allow his father to rest in peace. He took step after step to try and ensure that would happen.<br /><br />Publishing private letters between individuals is not at all on the same level as testing brain matter for DNA. And to the researcher: Lincoln's choices regarding the <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">leniency</span> and mercy that he showed others were exemplified throughout the man's entire life! Look at his court cases when he served on the Illinois <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">circuit</span> court. Examine the cases he took later as a well-to-do lawyer in Springfield. His behavior then mirrored his behavior and choices as our 16<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">th</span> President. Did he alter his opinions throughout his life? Yes. Don't we all? I know I do.<br /><br />But Lincoln's desire to show mercy and provide a way for the Confederacy to rejoin the Union was not made in the vacuum the researcher seems to think it was in. That was always his goal: to have one nation, one union. That would only be possible if they were shown mercy at the end of the most horrific war America has ever witnessed on its own soil.<br /><br />Also, it is well-documented that Presidents age drastically while in office. Lincoln just happens to have been the first President so heavily photographed as he entered office, during office, and at the end of his life. He was a unique man with amazing leadership abilities and served our country during one of its most trying eras. But he was just a man.<br /><br />The request to test his DNA is not historic research, it is an absolute invasion of privacy and I sincerely hope the Grand Army of the Republic Civil War Museum and Library bars the request. Don't even get me started on the destruction of historic material...Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-56417225377158279952009-04-07T11:39:00.004-06:002009-04-07T12:03:06.191-06:00I Run to YouI heard this song on the radio the other day and its been stuck in my head ever since. The line, "When lies become the truth, that's when I run to you," caught my attention. It's so true for my life lately.<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/iWJKX9NIiqc&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/iWJKX9NIiqc&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-3844644875309882922009-03-28T11:44:00.010-06:002009-03-29T14:16:23.328-06:00Trusting PainThe last several weeks have been pretty emotionally taxing for me. I feel God working in my life and pushing me to move outside my comfy boundaries in some areas. I have shed countless tears and had several restless nights of sleep. I so badly want to write about a couple specific things going on, but know that now is not the time and it may never be appropriate to share those experiences in this format. I've had some difficult conversations lately, but in the end know I obeyed God and have sought to repair and restore the relationships involved. Coping with the pain of one particular relationship has been very challenging and brought many of the old lies to the forefront of my mind and life.<br /><br />On top of the personal relationship issues going on, I've also started to stress out about this semester, a summer internship, summer classes, taking the certified archivist exam, fall semester, taking comps, and graduating; all of which are supposed to occur by the middle of December. Then, I need to find employment-which kicks the stress up to a whole new level! I've been overwhelmed and my mind quickly spins out of control worrying and thinking about these things. These times are when I wish I didn't have an overactive imagination!<br /><br />I was reading in <span style="font-style: italic;">God Calling</span> again this morning and this passage from a couple days ago caught my eye:<br /><blockquote>March 26<br />Follow Your Guide<br /><br />I am with you to guide you and help you. Unseen forces are controlling your destiny. Your petty fears are groundless.<br /><br />What of a man walking through a glorious glade who fretted because ahead there lay a river and he might not be able to cross it, when all the time, that river was spanned by a bridge? And what if that man had a friend who knew the way - had planned it - and assured him that at no part of the journey would any unforeseen contingency arise, and that all was well?<br /><br />So, leave your foolish fears, and follow Me, you Guide, and determinedly refuse to consider the problems of tomorrow. My message to you is, trust and wait.</blockquote>Trust. Typically, my eyes quickly shift to the floor and I emotionally hide when I hear that word. I've had a couple conversations with people lately about trust. It's a huge issue in my life, one that repeatedly comes up. I don't easily trust anyone, including God. I think I'm getting a little better about trusting Him, but trusting others remains an overwhelming challenge. <br /><br />There have been situations in the last year where I thought I trusted someone. In fact, if you'd asked me, I would've said that I trust specific people in my life. Yet, my actions and reactions to situations reveal quite the opposite; which grieves me. There seem to be several things that trigger what I perceive to be trust to almost instantly erode in my friendships and when the crisis passes, it returns. Not a good thing to happen and it means that it isn't real trust.<br /><br />I've seen this reaction occur a couple times in the last year (to varying degrees) and only one person has called me on it, though others have echoed similar concerns when I inquire. I'm not sure what to do about it. I want to trust others and for that trust to be deep and strong, not fleeting and fragile. Right now, I don't know how to get there. I do know that I can trust God and need to do so while I wait for His guidance. So, that's what I'm going to do, though I know it won't be easy... I guess trusting others will only start to occur once I learn to trust Him.Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-53945324920660239462009-03-13T23:19:00.003-06:002009-03-14T10:45:09.188-06:00Mr. Bean -LibraryThought I'd share this video with you. I'm slightly horrified by the antics, but it's still funny. It was actually assigned by one of my professors for class this week. Hope you enjoy it! :-)<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/RyDY0hiMZy8&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/RyDY0hiMZy8&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-25036535652549322892009-03-10T22:45:00.006-06:002009-03-10T23:01:32.042-06:00Smiles Are GoodThis week has been one for the record books. I needed something that would make me laugh and then this came on the radio. It didn't quite make me laugh, but at least I smiled!<br /><br />I'm Still a Guy<br />Brad Paisley<br /><br />When you see a deer you see Bambi<br />And I see antlers up on the wall.<br />When you see a lake you think picnics<br />And I see a large mouth up under that log.<br /><br />You're probably thinkin' that you're gonna change me.<br />In some ways well maybe you might.<br />Scrub me down, dress me up,<br />Oh but no matter what remember I'm still a guy.<br /><br />When you see a priceless French painting<br />And I see a drunk naked girl.<br />You think that riding a wild bull sounds crazy<br />And I'd like to give it a whirl.<br /><br />Well love makes a man do some things he ain't proud of<br />And in weak moment I might walk your sissy dog,<br />Hold your purse at the mall but remember I'm still a guy.<br /><br />I'll pour out my heart, hold your hand in the car,<br />Write a love song that makes you cry.<br />Then turn right around knock some jerk to the ground<br />'Cause he copped feel as you walk by.<br /><br />I can hear you now talkin' to your friends sayin',<br />"Yeah girls he's come a long way from draggin' his knuckles<br />And carryin' a club and buildin' a fire in a cave."<br />But when you say a back rub means only a back rub<br />Then you swat my hand when I try.<br />Well now what can I say at the end of the day,<br />"Honey, I'm still a guy."<br /><br />And I'll pour out my heart, hold your hand in the car,<br />Write a love song that makes you cry.<br />Then turn right around knock some jerk to the ground<br />'Cause he copped feel as you walk by.<br /><br />These days there's dudes gettin' facials,<br />Manicured, waxed and botoxed.<br />With deep spray-on tans<br />And creamy lotiony hands you can't grip a tackle box.<br /><br />Yeah, with all of these men linein' up to get neutered<br />It's hip now to be feminized.<br />I don't highlight my hair, I've still got a pair.<br />Yeah, honey I'm still a guy.<br /><br />Oh my eyebrows ain't plucked<br />There's a gun in my truck.<br />Oh thank god, I'm still a guy.Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-35872059898337290882009-03-07T11:38:00.002-07:002009-03-07T12:14:29.622-07:00How Many Years?My family moved to Colorado in March of 1992; which means that as of a couple days ago, I have lived here for 16 years!! I always tell people I was 12 when we moved, but technically I was 11. If you think my math is wrong, I spent a year in Indiana after graduate school.<br /><br />I remember being angry with my parents and devastated that we moved less than two weeks before my birthday. I couldn't understand why waiting two weeks wasn't possible. They did everything they could to make it up to me, but truth be told, I didn't let them off the hook for years. Once I started to make friends here, I was less upset about it and embraced being a "transplant." Unfortunately, that took two years to happen. Yeah, I have a temper and know how to hold a grudge. I'm Irish; what do you expect?<br /><br />It still seems odd to me that I've spent more of my life here than in Ohio and yet so much about Ohio still defines me. I think I'll always be partly Midwestern in my heart, though I have fully embraced the spirit of the West.<br /><br />It's crazy to think that this time next year, it is likely that I'll be living in another state. A far-fetched idea is that I could be living in another country. Totally possible, but not very probable. I have no idea where God will call me to move; I could remain in Colorado for all I know. But I feel like I'm being prepared for some grand adventure, the likes of which I haven't yet experienced. I'm excited to see where He takes me and what He has planned for me there! For now, I'm going to enjoy being here and am so thankful that my parents followed when He called them to Colorado 17 years ago!! Living here has been one of the biggest blessings of my life!Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-32220135749907634672009-02-28T22:41:00.005-07:002009-03-01T09:27:17.982-07:00PoliticsPeople who know me well know that I operate with a pretty big screen that blocks others from having a clear view of my political opinions. Over the years, I've learned this is an area where I'm the opposite of most of my friends and acquaintances. Most people I know quickly share their political opinions but shy away from talking about their personal story. It usually doesn't take much for me to tell my life story to those around me, but ask me about politics and I tend to shut down. I'm opinionated; I just rarely share what I think about politics with others. I could tell you how to get me to share my opinions, but really don't want to. :-)<br /><br />This isn't really political, but it's in the area so it counts for me. Yes, the screen is <span style="font-style: italic;">that</span> big.<br /><br />I don't want this to sound disrespectful or morbid, but I'm thankful that this week Secretary Gates announced a plan to lift the ban on coffin photographs of service men and women who have given their lives for this country. The plan is in the early stages, but it sounds like family members will be permitted to decide how much privacy they want regarding this issue.<br /><br />I think I understand the reasons this ban was instituted in 1991; however, the entire story of war should be documented and reported on fairly in this country. I include photographs of our wounded and dead in that documentation, coffin or otherwise. Matthew Brady and others who followed in his footsteps have given us an honest and balanced perspective of the casualties of war this country has fought in the last 100+ years. If we can't tolerate those images, we have no business being at war.<br /><br />I could go on about this, but won't. I've said what I wanted to and felt I should say, back to life as usual with my political screen firmly in place!Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-43945419963577448002009-02-22T09:30:00.001-07:002009-02-22T09:33:09.550-07:0010 Years<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiL390zznC3RGgWX6r4JOWcbXAnrqqkc6wGInKRRSK5XVL-crcOZFE7VvvPVvUj9DbLpvx_-rmVQErsY9X9BDNz3FKEYhedYBSThTwyMWGbPhkjO2SWtb6qzNmqoNGxqkPA_9KCZ1cGKZg/s1600-h/scan0016.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 190px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiL390zznC3RGgWX6r4JOWcbXAnrqqkc6wGInKRRSK5XVL-crcOZFE7VvvPVvUj9DbLpvx_-rmVQErsY9X9BDNz3FKEYhedYBSThTwyMWGbPhkjO2SWtb6qzNmqoNGxqkPA_9KCZ1cGKZg/s320/scan0016.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5305660607875158690" border="0" /></a>My life changed forever ten years ago today. At the age of 43, my dad died of esophageal cancer. He had been diagnosed five months earlier, by then it had metastasized to the liver and stomach. Diagnosed at stage 4, he was given a 5% chance of surviving 3 years. The doctors said that the cancer was probably only 4-6 weeks old when they caught it. Given that he had no prior history of smoking or drinking, activities generally associated with esophageal cancer, the doctors said they were lucky to catch it as early as they did.<br /><br />Throughout his illness, he was convinced God would heal him. He never lost that hope, confidently clinging to it on the most difficult days. He insisted that everyone around him believe he would be healed too-completely trusting God to meet his needs. Thankfully, the worst day of his illness was his last in this world. God blessed my entire family by taking him home peacefully and quickly.<br /><br />One of my friends was sharing part their life story with me last week when they said, "God showed me He could've done [x], and then didn't." It stuck me that God did the same with my dad. After a round of chemo and radiation, the tumors drastically shrunk. The doctors said they had never seen anything like it; they began to believe he would go into remission. Of course, my dad used it as an outreach opportunity, sharing his faith with whomever he encountered. God showed that He could have healed my dad, but in the end didn't.<br /><br />It took me eight years to fully grieve his loss in my life. This year's anniversary feels different for several reasons. While my heart still hurts, there's peace and acceptance that overwhelms the pain. I also want to rejoice in the man he was:<br /><ul><li>He loved and served God throughout his life. </li><li>He loved and protected his family and close friends with a passion that sometimes overwhelmed people. </li><li>He was fun and mischievousness. </li><li>The family that does yard work together...gets frustrated and mad together! I don't know how many summers we spent landscaping different parts of our yard in Colorado. </li><li>He spent countless hours tinkering with his 1961 Chevrolet Bel Air. I don't know how many antique car shows the family went to over the years, but we had fun at them!<br /></li><li>He loved computers and new technology. He would be beside himself with all the technological gadgets we have now.<br /></li><li>And my absolute favorite: He was only ticklish on the bottoms of his feet. Tickling him of course meant the entire family had to tackle him! Eventually, my brother and I were able to tackle him without my mom's assistance, but it generally took quite a bit of strategy and coordination. :-)</li></ul>Today, I miss my daddy more than usual. I'm having a hard time believing that I've lived a decade without him. In the end, all I can say is: God is good; His plan is perfect!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPTNdc9x91NAAwFdJEsNffwpqTR5lP6QcgokluBBBNEgnFQcYG_VDV9xXYdMtrFVJghv5-jXYT0FXKiIgX2uJtuk37nZZ2vp6knFz5-t8HxfrD_cmcQoo_BBWxmMC8PqzG9foCK2-z6VQ/s1600-h/scan0015.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 260px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPTNdc9x91NAAwFdJEsNffwpqTR5lP6QcgokluBBBNEgnFQcYG_VDV9xXYdMtrFVJghv5-jXYT0FXKiIgX2uJtuk37nZZ2vp6knFz5-t8HxfrD_cmcQoo_BBWxmMC8PqzG9foCK2-z6VQ/s320/scan0015.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5304589262513797730" border="0" /></a> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqTw0W4eFV6nj_2MiBwrI4VHhqYMEQCbyvYNM2jMgEds_KKuYOrOGddvYXoZS2rldQVGMqD51Rypz49HVPZ6RoWpWexynVNzcNGNngyEHhJb9wJgObJjsSyhYc9hiHcCxIZBtf06uAS4I/s1600-h/scan0013.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 316px; height: 229px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqTw0W4eFV6nj_2MiBwrI4VHhqYMEQCbyvYNM2jMgEds_KKuYOrOGddvYXoZS2rldQVGMqD51Rypz49HVPZ6RoWpWexynVNzcNGNngyEHhJb9wJgObJjsSyhYc9hiHcCxIZBtf06uAS4I/s320/scan0013.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5304588607232326546" border="0" /></a>Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-32815912680381744352009-02-17T08:15:00.005-07:002009-02-17T08:46:57.587-07:00DatingLately, I've had a several conversations with people about dating. I blame Fuse's next study on the Song of Solomon for this. ;-) When people ask about my dating status or whether I date, I usually give this vague and simple explanation, "I'm single and don't currently date because God's made it clear that's not His plan for me right now." While true, it doesn't fully explain what God has revealed to me about this area of my life. A friend got me thinking about this last night.<br /><br />It's no secret that I was involved with a church during college that rejected the concept of dating. From the pulpit (or stage in their case), they preached the gospel of courtship according to Joshua Harris and others in his ideological camp. The concept of "guarding your heart" was openly discussed, wildly embraced, and frequently (at least on my small group) applied to people's lives in extreme ways. Many people I knew failed at this, including me-with sometimes disastrous results. It isn't a bad concept, I just saw and experienced it applied legalistically; not a good thing. Random comment: I don't want to hear about the nature of our hearts/relationships in comparison to tape ever again! I know that's a lot to ask and probably isn't possible-but it makes me cringe.<br /><br />I attended a (women's) prayer meeting in college where a girl revealed she was no longer talking to God because she wanted to be married to a guy in the church, only he wasn't (openly) pursuing her. She was angry at God because she wasn't getting her way-she was convinced this was the man she was supposed to marry. (This type of thing happened somewhat regularly in the church, it just wasn't often revealed in larger prayer meetings.) It was honest and brave of her to confess where she was with God, but she was letting a man interfere with that relationship, not wise. Less than a month later, the girl was engaged to said guy, they went on their first date, and got married six months later-in that order. This became fairly common in the last year (or two) that I was part of that church. To be clear, I found this practice rather disturbing. What got to me was that couples like the one in this story were held up as good examples to follow, as they guarded their hearts prior to being engaged. Huh? I think I have mental whiplash from that logic.<br /><br />As I saw (and experienced)-having been in one official and several unofficial (or as my friend calls them-fake) dating relationships-people who managed to get engaged prior to officially courting or dating failed to guard their hearts. To be willing to commit and marry someone without ever having officially or openly spent one-on-one time with them, getting to really know them with a shared understanding of the relationship's purpose, and growing closer together as you grow closer to God means their hearts were wrapped up with each other somewhere along the road without the verbal commitment. That's dangerous, no matter how you look at it. While things worked out well for the above couple, that wasn't always the case. *slowly steps off the soapbox*<br /><br />So, back to my original topic... It would be really simple for me to explain my own not dating stance by blaming it on the guy who assaulted me. I did that for years, it's too simple and no longer true for my life. I also used to explain that I was too damaged or messed up to ever be in a relationship; I don't believe that anymore either. In the past couple of years, several people (mostly guys) were patient with me as I relearned how to communicate and trust others-usually by chatting with them online. Hiding behind a computer screen works well for me. (What filter?) ;-) I never met most of those people, but I did meet some; others were "old" friends. The trick has been taking what I've learned and applying it to real life. I'm not so great at that part of it-more patience has been required during this process. I think it's slowly getting there though.<br /><br />Last year, I was lamenting to God about not having a boyfriend and how lonely I was. I found ways to correct that on my own, but eventually gave them up as I realized that wasn't God's plan for me. It was a tough year, I slowly returned to God, and experienced much loneliness throughout that process. I wanted several deep and close friendships; I had one. Most others remained on the surface for a variety of reasons. I was driving to work one morning when it struck me: I can't be in a dating relationship with a man until I know how to truly and wholeheartedly love and serve God; I needed to date God! This actually applies to all of my relationships, but at the time it was specific to men.<br /><br />My relationship with Him needs to be grounded, strong, and successful before a man can enter into the picture. So, I'm letting Him pursue me; it's why I finally stopped running. I'm not doing this so that I'll eventually be married, but rather that this is what God wants from me. Regardless of what His plans are for my future, I want to know Him at a more intimate level.<br /><br />I heard and applied this to my life in college, but utterly failed when it mattered most and I ultimately placed my small group and friendships above God. This time around has been different. There's a new perspective on it for me. I've made some mistakes along the way over the last year. "Austin" is the first that comes to mind. I don't always spend as much time with God as I'd like to. However, I don't beat myself up over it and I'm content with where things are right now, confident that He is guiding and leading me. There are still times I struggle with being single, but a peace remains throughout the struggle that has never been there before.<br /><br />I also routinely ask for God to guard my heart. Yeah, who thought I would ever pray that for my life again? Not me! I think my perspective on this concept is more balanced now. It doesn't mean exactly the same thing to me that I was taught in college.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Am I opposed to dating?</span> No, I just know that right now God wants me to focus solely on Him. If it's His will for me to enter into a dating relationship, He'll shift me in that direction in His own time and for the proper man. <span style="font-style: italic;">Do I want to be in a relationship that someday leads to marriage? </span>Yes, but that is no longer my life's singular goal. <span style="font-style: italic;">Are there times when I wish someone was there to hug and hold me, to comfort me?</span> Yes, that's when I seek God and sometimes spend time with the incredible women He has placed in my life. God has revealed that dating is not part of His immediate plan for me. Right now, He just wants me for Himself.<br /><br />My family jokes that God will have to drop a man out of the sky and onto my car for me to notice him. I should sell my old car soon-what if He puts him on the wrong one?! ;-D It's not that I don't notice men, I do. I just don't notice if they notice me, which works pretty well. It isn't foolproof and there have been some negative interactions as a result of this approach; however, it's better than me looking for the signs of interest and getting all giddy over nothing. Yeah, I'm a mushy girlie-girl, I hope someday someone will embrace that about me; for now, God protects it.<br /><br />I'll take more notice of a man and date when God makes it clear that is His plan and the man openly pursues me (no more fake dating!); or drops out of the sky onto my car... It's a white... ;-)Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6259785641295866779.post-75775740343747474402009-02-15T01:59:00.004-07:002009-02-15T02:04:27.656-07:00Wallhanging<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGLcoHZCyQtV7JyCYspsoLuBVQdBMxKS8vAHuuhwys1JG3omOgYJRfCP_n1CJ88R5j8G4NaJFvpM-FIMH0bIMPnH1S-Cic-cpQpNbZaxcilLL0FilANB3vAQB01MgalY9Ll3t5p_St9a0/s1600-h/Purple+Quilt+2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 246px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGLcoHZCyQtV7JyCYspsoLuBVQdBMxKS8vAHuuhwys1JG3omOgYJRfCP_n1CJ88R5j8G4NaJFvpM-FIMH0bIMPnH1S-Cic-cpQpNbZaxcilLL0FilANB3vAQB01MgalY9Ll3t5p_St9a0/s320/Purple+Quilt+2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302946620158321442" border="0" /></a><br />This is the first quilt I completely finished. This is the best picture of it, even though the binding of one side isn't seen. I wonder what my favorite color could be... ;)Colleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07399468510825700577noreply@blogger.com0